I am 23 years old and I want to tell you my story. I was worried sick as I saw my hairline starting to climb. I went to a doctor in Toronto who said that I was going to go bald and needed to take swift action to prevent it. After listening to him, I went into a panic, took out most of the money I saved to go to graduate school and got transplanted with 2700 grafts. The doctor lowered my hairline also (about 1/4 inch) as well and transplanted the entire front, top and back of my head. I did some comparative shopping when I was investigating who to see about my problem and found that the price he was charging me was very competitive at slightly under $4/graft Canadian ($10,000 in cash). After the transplant was done, I found my hair falling out faster than before. The doctor told me that the new hair will replace far more than I lost and that I was lucky to get to him before the the hair had fallen out. It is now 10 months since my surgery and I am worse off now than before the surgery. I have less hair and a hairline that is nothing like the pictures the doctor showed me when I was shopping. I am very depressed, so much so that I feel that what I did to myself has created a monster. I needed to tell someone about this, but I am not sure what I am asking of you. What would you advise your son to do if he screwed up like this?
This is a tragic story, one that is hopefully not common today. To be blunt, you got taken advantage of. To do 2700 grafts on a 23 year old with little or no balding and only a receding hairline is not only malpractice, but (in my opinion) it is criminal. You got scammed and fleeced. The doctor who preyed upon you took advantage of his position, breached the Hippocratic Oath and probably violated the law.
I speak over and over again on the importance of commanding this process. You need to meet patients directly, one on one, and see the results for yourself. You need to examine the practice of the doctor you are intending to do the surgery to find out about his/her ethics. Their patients will tell you what you want to know. I can remember an unethical, scummy medical facility from many years ago that gave out a list of patients to call for references. I knew that these doctors were crooks, so when I got the list, I called down the list of patients. What each and every person on the list told me was that they would never recommend their doctor, that they were deformed by that doctor and that they felt cheated, raped, and ripped off. What I also learned from the patient victim that gave me the list is that he never called the patients on that list, because he assumed that these people were 500 good references for the doctor — clearly not the case.
What you should have learned here is that you must protect yourself from the unethical doctors out there. I would certainly notify the governmental agency that controls the doctor’s license. In America, you can file suit and clean up if this was the criminal process that it sounds like. Elective cosmetic surgery is a Buyer Beware business. There are good doctors out there who do practice ethical medicine. So for our audience of readers, I hope that you learn from this young man’s mistake — learn that it is your job to research your doctor before you buy.
I feel empathy for you. If you would like to talk with me, please set up a conference with me at 800-NEW-HAIR.
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I am very concerned that you had a hair restoration procedure at such a young age, especially in the crown area and many doctors including myself might think that this is not an approach that an ethical doctor would do. Of course I do not have the luxury to examine you in person, but surgery is rarely recommend at such young age, particularly in the crown. More importantly, having surgery too early may actually accelerate hair loss and you may end up with negative (worse off) results. It sounds that way to me.