How to Ensure Health and Happiness from When You Are Not near a Family Member

If you have someone who is elder and needs help, here is an article sent to me to address this.

Long-Distance Care: Tips On How To Ensure A Loved One Is Healthy And Happy From Afar

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When you live far away from a senior loved one, it can be difficult to ensure they receive the care they need and that their emotional needs are met. For many people, trying to plan for a family member from afar is stressful and comes with feelings of guilt because they can’t be there in person.

Fortunately, there are several simple things you can do to help make sure your senior loved one is well taken care of no matter where you live. Nowadays, technology makes it easier than ever to stay informed and maintain a presence in your family members’ lives, even from afar. For seniors who have health issues, mobility issues, or are ready to downsize their home so that they can age-in-place, this is imperative and can help you have more control over the situation.

Here are some of the best ways you can help your loved one.

Communicate with your family

If your family is scattered across the country, it may be hard to pin everyone down to share information and make decisions that will affect your loved one. Keep up communication as much as possible through email or by using an app like Skype so you can talk and see one another at the same time. Set up meetings to discuss any upcoming events or planning that needs to be done. Keeping everyone on the same page will ensure that the bulk of the work won’t fall on any one person’s shoulders.

Get organized…

Whether you have power of attorney for your loved one or are just the most responsible family member, it’s important to get organized and keep all valuable paperwork and info together regarding your loved one. Make copies for yourself so your family member can hold onto the originals, and make copies of any important keys as well so you’ll have access to the home or vehicles should you need it. Keep everything together, in one place.

Arrange for transportation

If you can’t be around to help get your loved one to doctor’s appointments or to go shopping and they don’t drive, arrange for transportation to help them stay independent. Many cities offer free bus rides for seniors, and there are also services offered by hospitals, senior care centers, and assisted living facilities.

You can find more information about arranging transportation for your loved one here.

Find the right apps

There are plenty of apps available for seniors who have a smartphone and feel comfortable using that technology. For instance, you might help your loved one download an app that will help them remember to take their medication or one that monitors and records blood pressure. There’s even an app that will help your loved one keep track of their medical records so there’s no confusion the next time they go to the doctor. Whatever your senior’s needs are, there’s likely an app that will help them with their daily activities.

Help them stay social

Maintaining a healthy, active social life is important for seniors of any age, no matter what their living situation is. For those who have issues with mobility or are battling a health problem, staying social can help boost their self-esteem and give them a sense of purpose, so help your loved one find clubs to join or activities to take part in where they live.

Making sure your senior loved one is healthy and happy isn’t always easy, but with a little planning, there are many ways you can be involved in their life and help them with everyday issues. Keep communication open and be prepared to ensure your family member will stay safe and enjoy each day.

 


2019-07-29 14:56:39How to Ensure Health and Happiness from When You Are Not near a Family Member

Libido and Hair Loss

My husband is considering a transplant operation as one way to address his waning male libido – and yes, he has thinned quite a bit since he turned 50. A friend told him that since he (the friend) had hair transplants he was feeling more confident in ALL areas of his life, including his sex drive. Is this true? Better than Viagra?

Libido is a complex characteristic of the human male or female and is not related to just one factor. Clearly, what men think of their manhood, their attractiveness, their self-esteem, the influence of the woman in their life, directly impacts their libido. One of the important determining elements for libido has to do with a man’s emotional state and sense of well being. The second, is a man’s reaction to his hormonal influences and brain regulators that drive libido. We know that Testosterone is the most potent hormone that in determining the sex drive in men (and in women). Third, is the physical ability of a man’s penis to react to his sexual wants and needs. Penile function is another complex process and the failure of a penis to become erect, even in the motivated sexually driven male, will perpetuate (or make worse) sexual dysfunction.

With regard to your comment on the increased confidence of men who have had a hair transplant, well, this is a very common message my patients pass on to me. For example: One well known, rich, successful and happily married businessman came to me with a Class 6 (fairly bald) pattern. He had two transplant sessions totaling about 5000 grafts. He was dynamic and was known for his charismatic style in public – but there was a piece of the inner, sexual man what was influenced by his hair loss. His wife came to me a couple of years after I had finished his hair restoration process. When he told her of his decision to have a hair transplant, she was outwardly supportive, but secretly did not feel it was necessary. She told me that after her husband had his hair back, the man she married came back and her confession brought tears to my eyes. She told me that her love had never diminished as he was balding, because he was still the same man she fell in love with and married. Now she wanted me to share her joy in the decision and to thank me for my role in his restoration two years earlier.

This story should shed light on the secret inner man which is in every man. The inner man does not like aging, Balding is a reminder of the aging process that men hate. The problem for most men, however, is that the transplant route is imbued with negative connotations and men tend to be averse to the idea that their vanity is a problem for them. Facing their vanity without the support of a loving and understanding wife, can be a difficult decision for a married man. For the recently divorced man, on the other hand, hair transplantation is a common process during the post divorce period and with the change in their image (even the possibilities of a potentially painful surgery), a hair transplant is often moved to the forefront. With a change in the physical appearance that comes with a normal looking head of hair, comes a confidence and a libido to match provided the plumbing is in good condition.

Empress Re-Gro

im a 28 year old black male, my temple area is getting real thin, what do you recommend a couple of sites said, “that provillus and empress re-gro hair is good for black males.” What do you think? or any these products any good and/or effective? Do you know a better treatment? Thanks.

Empress Re-Gro contains 2% minoxidil, and just like so many of these hair loss products you see advertised constantly, if there is a benefit to your hair, it usually comes from the minoxidil (which is FDA approved).

I can not recommend what to do for you, as I do not know what problems you are facing. Many people are driven by what they see on the TV informercials, which are heavily exploited by Provillus and other potions and lotions. Black people have the same characteristics that produce alopecia as white people, so when one product pushes its value for black people, I would generally run away from it.


2008-05-20 15:31:15Empress Re-Gro

Emotional Overeating and Female Hair Loss

Hello,

I am 20 years old and have been experiencing female pattern hair loss during the last two years. Most of my blood work is fine other than I was on the lower end of the normal range for iron levels and my TSH was at 5.7 so now I am on synthroid and my TSH levels are normal. The only other thing is that I sometimes emotional over eat but otherwise I eat a very healthy diet. Could emotional over eating cause hair loss?

It seems that the hair loss process was kicked off with thyroid problems and some anemia. To answer your question, stress (something you may handle with over eating) can cause hair loss as well.


2007-07-18 08:33:40Emotional Overeating and Female Hair Loss

Email sent by patient from Turkey with complications after hair transplant

An Email sent by patient from Turkey who stated that he had a red, hot scalp 2 months after his hair transplant. The presentation he was discussing sounds like an infection but he said he cold not go back to who ever did it. I told him that “You must go to a skilled doctor, any good doctor to make the diagnosis commence treatment?


2016-10-31 01:23:12Email sent by patient from Turkey with complications after hair transplant

Email Response from Managing Director of HairMax LaserComb

Earlier this month, I posted an entry titled Analyzing the Results of the HairMax Laser Comb. The extensive email that I received (posted below) shows the great care that the HairMax folks went through to try to be objective. I do not doubt that objectivity was the intent, but upon reviewing the images that were presented, my counts came up differently than the counts of the researcher(s). I know how to count, and since densitometry was my invention (so to speak), I think that my expertise in counting hairs stands for itself. The conclusions of my previous writing still stand (see link above). Nothing written below changes that. The scientific study was put together properly, but it failed on the simplest level, counting hairs. All is wasted if the counts (which our readership can do) failed to be what the researchers counted. I will present the impressive piece written by David Michaels of Lexington International (makers of HairMax LaserComb), because it is fair to do so. Remember, there is no substitute for good marketing, but the success of a product should not infer that the product does as represented, nor does it make counting numbers different than what they are.

Greetings Dr. Rassman,

Firstly, I would like to thank you for taking interest in low-level laser therapy and fielding questions on your blog about our device, the “HairMax LaserComb.” Open discussions like this one can only help to further the advancement of LLLT. I spoke to our chief medical advisor, Dr. Matt Leavitt, about your remarks regarding the LaserComb on your blog and Dr. Leavitt spoke very highly of your professionalism, commenting especially about your intellectual brilliance.

We reviewed your blog page that contains comments about our clinical study’s macro photos and we encourage you to post this message as a follow up to your comments.

We would like to outline some of the background about the clinical study we concluded.

Our experience with using low-level laser therapy for hair dates back to the mid-80’s in Sydney, Australia. Our founder operated a laser clinic where he successfully treated thousands of people. I was one of these laser patients and had significant results. We then worked closely together to develop a hand held laser device for the international market that can assist individuals suffering from problem hair. The HairMax LaserComb has been on the market for five years and is in use in over 74 countries.

In 2005, we concluded a clinical study protocol entitled “A RANDOMIZED, DOUBLE-BLIND CLINICAL TRIAL TO EVALUATE THE SAFETY AND EFFICACY OF THE HAIRMAX LASERCOMB FOR THE TREATMENT OF ANDROGENETIC ALOPECIA IN MALES”. The primary efficacy endpoint was: Change in terminal hair counts, which are non-vellus hairs, in the target region between baseline and endpoint, utilizing macro images.

This is our second clinical study; unfortunately, we had bad professional direction for our first study as it was only a single site without a control. Despite this, we used the results of this initial research as a pilot study to help develop our new protocol.

Our goal was to conduct this study scientifically and in accordance to Good Clinical Practices (GCP). We utilized four clinical research facilities, three of which participated in many of the Minoxidil studies. Each facility had a primary investigator with extensive experience in Androgenetic Alopecia. All study protocols were approved by an IRB. Professional independent site monitors were employed to verify all case report forms and data managers were used to ensure that all recorded data complied with the protocol and with all applicable section of 21 CFR as required by the FDA. A biostatistician was retained to independently analyze the resulting dataset.

The equipment in use was a Fuji S2 6 megapixel digital camera with a Canfield epilume attachment. The same location was photographed every time, marked by a tattoo and the hair counts, centered around this tattoo, are well documented using Canfield Mirror DPS 6.0 software which stores a image on each individual hair counted over the original macro image for verification.

While conducting our study, we sought to show that the HairMax LaserComb had an effect on the number of non-vellus hairs present on the scalp. In an effort to eliminate any potential bias, independent medical professionals were commissioned to perform the hair counts. These professionals were blinded to the treatment assignments thus removing any bias towards the subjects’ treatment. The data from these medical professionals was then monitored and sent directly to the data management team removing and potential for us to review the data or interact with it.

All terminal hairs were marked and registered in Canfield’s Mirror DPS software using a 19 inch computer monitor. They were evaluated and counted by two independent hair professional reviewers. We are sure you can appreciate that counting many hundred macro images is a laborious task and can be very tiring on the eye. For this reason, we ensured that all hair counts were not performed consecutively. The counts were split up over a reasonable period of time in an effort to eliminate any uncertainty introduced from reviewer fatigue. Although the reviewers may have missed one or two hairs, we are confident that our macro counts represent a fair and accurate assessment of our study.

Our macro images were carefully reviewed by numerous professionals including many of your peers; all have complemented us on our fair evaluation of the data and our methods used in the study. We are unaware of what standard Dr. Rollins and you used in reviewing these images and where the difference exists in our hair counts. However, all the hairs that were counted are marked and we consider these counts to be an objective evaluation.

We will be bringing our clinical images with us to the ISHRS conference in San Diego; we invite you and Dr. Rollins to further review our images up close and hopefully once you see the standard of the images and documented counts you may have a different assessment of our macro images.

Kind regards,

David Michaels, Managing Director
Lexington Int LLC
Developers and Manufacturers of the HairMax LaserComb

Eltroxin and Female Hair Loss?

Does Eltroxin used for hypothyroidism cause hair loss. I am 47 yrs old and have menopause. Does low estrogen level cause hair loss. Will I need to take some preparation of Estrogen to prevent hair loss?

Eltroxin (levothyroxine) is known to cause hair loss in some, though it is usually temporary (see side effects).

Low estrogen can also cause hair loss. You should talk to your doctor about these issues.

Eliminating Bald Spots from Childhood Ringworm Scars?

Hello I am an 19 year old african american male that has small patches of missing hair on my scalp. When i was about seven years old I contracted a sever case of ring worm on my head, due to picking at it, when it healed i was left with small patches if missing hair. Since then, i have always had hair styles such as braids, afro, and now dreads mainly to cover the few small spots. I am now wanting to cut my hair and in some spots small patches still appear, how can i fix this?

As long as you are not still picking at the area (which is either trichotillomania or dermatillomania), you can consider a small hair transplant surgery to put hair back into the bald patches. If you are still picking these areas, any transplanted grafts will be lost from the picking.

Elevated Bilirubin Levels from Finasteride?

I am a 51 y/o male. I have been taking Finasteride for the past 4 yrs. I also take Lovastatin for my cholesterol. My latest blood test showed elevated levels of Bilirubin. My doctor stated that it might be from the Finastride and that it is a possible side effect of the drug. I can’t find any info on this claim and I find it hard to believe that it all of a sudden is causing this.

Can you help me? I don’t want to stop taking the Finasteride and lose the results. I also must add that Dr. Pak did a procedure on me just about 2 yrs. ago and I love the results. Thank You.

I’m glad you are enjoying the results of your hair transplant!

I would ask your doctor to look for another cause of liver dysfunction. I have not heard or read about finasteride causing this type of problem. Lovastatin and similar medications do report elevated bilirubin levels as a possible side effect, however.

Electrolysis of Hair Transplant Results

Can I use hair removal if I decide my transplants just aren’t looking right? I am just trying to figure out what my options are to undo the surgery.

I met with a patient a couple years ago who had frontal hair transplants at a clinic with results that did not meet his expectations. He responded by going through electrolysis and removing the grafts. He came to my office to figure out what to do with the linear scar.

The results of the tedious electrolysis was very good, but in our experience, electrolysis is very dependent upon the skill of the person doing it. The means the results from this process can vary considerably. The use of hair removal lasers also can be a problem particularly if the grafts are large since they leave an abnormal “foot print” in the skin once the hair is gone.